Discover your love style and understand how you express, receive, and communicate affection in your relationships.
Choose how each statement makes you feel loved
See your scores for each love style
Learn simple ways to ask for and give love
The five ways people give and feel love
Words & Praise
You feel love through kind words, praise, and appreciation said out loud.
Acts of Care
You feel love when people do helpful, thoughtful things for you.
Quality Time
You feel love through focused, undistracted time together.
Physical Closeness
You feel love through touch, hugs, and physical closeness.
Gifts & Tokens
You feel love through thoughtful gifts and little tokens of being thought of.
Brief enough to hold my attention, substantial enough that I didn't feel I'd wasted it.
The love style test helped me notice affection from my husband even when it wasn't how I'd show it.
I got physical closeness. A hug matters to me, and I feel more comfortable asking for one now.
I answered for myself rather than what my partner might say about me. The results helped me trust that my perspective counts too.
For me, quality time means being together without distractions. That helped me explain why sitting beside each other on our phones isn't enough.
Not everything has to change my life. This was a worthwhile check on how I see myself, and that was enough.
I'm wary of reducing affection to categories, but the distinction between giving and receiving it was worth considering.
According to the love style test, doing the washing-up can count as affection, which gives me a better reason to notice it.
Having the results in writing keeps me from changing my account of myself to suit whichever mood I'm in.
Got quality time, so being together without distractions matters to me. That explains why half-listening bothers me so much.
It showed why I keep taking on other people's priorities at work, and gave tiny steps I could try - which I will
The questions were relevant and the report insightful. I sent the practical tips to my partner, we actually talked.
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